Might be so many interfering 'busy bodies' around making judgements about this subject, everywhere we go, because they just can't let go of the rigid crap that's been drilled into them since school. Unable to have latitude and free their minds, not realising that it is none of their business really.
If you hear it from a guy, particulary those that live in the west, then they are just envious or jealous. Bet they wish they could have such a wide choice.
Women
back home just get pissed off about it because given the choice we'd rather jump into bed with a slim, beautiful, younger women than a psycologically disturbed nut-buster.
So long as people are happy and not breaking any laws, then it's OK.
I don't blame a woman for wanting a better life, certainly not here. Everyone wants to have a better life, but we, as westerners, have more chances.
