Here's over 200k without even thinking hard about it, I'm not saying we or anyone else needs to do & spend all this stuff, but apart from gardner/house cleaner (wife works & helps looks after kid), dogs, immigration, then leaving aside how much is spent... is there really much on this list you wouldn't do back home?
30k car finance/tax/ins/repairs
30k wife allowance food/groceries/clothes/make-up/toiletries/small bills)
60k entertainment/meals out/drinking/clothes/golf/local trips/gym/hobbies
15k gardener/pool cleaner/house cleaner
10k kids school fees
5k kid clothes/nappies/extra stuff at school/savings acc/books/DVD's/friends parties
10k elec/water/gas bills
3k service or new air-cons/wash machine/fridge/oven/lawn mower/pool equip/gate motors/TV's
2k immigration/helmet fines/tea money
3k dogs (we got 5

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2k insurances
3k inlaw donations
4k internet/phone bills/new mobiles
3k car/bike fuel, motorbike stuff
3k house upgrades/improvements
10k international travel/trip back 'home' (we don't do it)
5k birthdays/anniversaries/ Christmas/Valentines/mothers day/fathers day
5k healthcare
5k trips to Bangkok/other resorts
2k UBC
SJ