Many bars have computer where you can select your music and many will play what you want from their cd libraries
Cruise the bars as they go up and down
If they are playing trance or hiphop it's usually the girls choice. Don't forget YOU are the customer. The only likely conflict is a farang who is in there before you and wants selection first
Flamingo bar and the small bar next door have a good selection of heavy stuff
Many bars do have live music but not every night. Johney Walkers, Buffalo Tavern and Uturn to name a few. Best to ask them direct which nights
As our tastes seem to be the same we may bump into each other
