I dont agree with that. I also have to try earn a living but i dont ignore things that i was teached as youngster, and to be honest, i dont need to do it only because i am living with a person of another (still not that much developed compared to european or US) culture IN a country with an completely different culture.chopsticks wrote: There's no welfare state so people have to try and earn a living even if it means ignoring some of the 'nice to have' rules and regulations.
Try Singapore if you're looking for Western standards in an Asian setting.
Its a question of education.
Let me explain in words my grandfather used to say when i was not behaving properly (he was a farmer with a lot of animals on his land):
Even though u are living at a farm, u dont need to behave like a pig.
U always have the choice what kind of behave u choose for yourself.
So i can accept the behave of a pig, cow, donkey, whatever, but i dont need to act like one. (Not missunderstand that, i am not saying that locals are animals)
And i am happy with my attitude and try to teach them to my daughter.
Whether she agrees and accept it or not it will be her choice...
If its too hard written (or mistakable) for this forum i ask the moderation to delete it...