I sympathise with you who live in town (HH), but it is a tourist town and the mercenary tone goes with all that. I have a house in suburban Bkk (Klong Samwa), far from the madding crowds of farangs (tourists and expats) near Sukhumvit and Silon/Satorn. Some friends who live downtown often become bitter, feeling themselves to be at the mercy of the locals who treat them as ATMs, and never see a smile the whole day long. I say that I (Clinton-like) feel their pain, why don't they get the hell out of downtown?? They always say 'no way bro, I'd miss the farang scene, the convenience, and the western food and entertainment'. Well, they've made their choice, enough with the kvetching already!
Where I am, out in the boonies, I'm sometimes frustrated by the lack of western "cultural infrastructure", but the locals are nice, plenty of real smiles, and the Thai-Chinese elderly girl who sells me my grog does so not only with a smile, but she takes a baht of the price per bottle because I'm a frequent flyer (imbiber?). She also gives me a wee gift every new year. I love little things like that.
