Most Thais will tell you that you have to water every day. They will also tell you that you should do it during the heat of the day!
There are many variable factors involved to determine the correct water requirement, as pointed out above. But one of the base things that should be looked at is: "Evapotranspiration"
Look it up on the Internet, as it is too vast of a subject to write here.
One of the biggest wastes of water is due to direct evaporation from watering during the heat of the day. There has been a lot of research done in Thailand on the use or water for irrigation, initiated by HM the King. And although it really does not concern domestic gardens, the principles are the same.
I will copy some stuff that I had advice on:
"I can only tell you evaporation rates from open ponds which is approx. 1 cm per day in the dry season. (I read that from an estimate that the King had done for Northeast Thailand.). What you are probably looking for is evapotranspiration. I think it would be near impossible to give a real watering requirement for your garden without being there to watch the soil and plants. If you were looking around for a way to spend your money, you could invest in one of those high-tech potentiometers for measuring how fast the soil dries out and link it to an irrigation system. (bit far-fetched I think!)
Here is something that might give you an idea but you will have to take into consideration the types of trees, depth of soil, type of soil, humidity etc.:
"This study was performed to examine seasonal changes in evapotranspiration (ET), soil water content, and crop coefficients (Kc) for sugarcane, cassava, and maize fields in Northeast Thailand. ET rates during the rainy season varied between 2 and 6 mm per day but remained around 1 mm per day in the dry season. The normal dry season ET was much greater than the water loss from the top 0.5 m of soil, suggesting that capillary rise from deeper soil layers provides significant amounts of water to the upper soil layer. The Kc for sugarcane and cassava reached growing season peaks of approximately 1.10 and 1.20, respectively, in June. The maximum Kc for the maize field was approximately 1.20. Although the ET estimated by the Hargreaves equation exceeded the FAO reference ET value for this region, the values had a high correlation when the Hargreaves ET was calculated using solar radiation measurements."
" I would recommend you have the water on once in the morning for 5 or 10 minutes depending on coverage and saturation rates. Timing should be around 4am so it gives the water time to soak in before the sun comes up. 5 or 10 minutes again in the evening after the sun goes down. Certainly don't water during the day as at least 50% of the irrigation water will go to the air."
"The grass shouldn't need as much especially if you can get the grass roots growing down a meter or so. The golf courses say the root systems on the greens can go down at least a meter but then that is in sandy conditions.
Trial and error is probably going to be your best bet."
The above info was given to me by an expat agricultural scientist that lives and works in Thailand.
