The poster is not wrong that there are couples which can be spotted for what they are, ex- bar girl and ex - sex tourist. Where most of us might find that he seems wrong, is in his derogatory attitude towards such couples.
Otherwise, I agree that the answer to OP is self evident - you meet Thai ladies where you'll meet them in your home country, at the mall, on the bus, in the market, at work, school and yes, at the sports club. I would guess ex - caddies and golfers is another known combination in Hua HIn.
I think my two cents worth is - we don't need to be edgy about it.
As for me? I met Noi at Thai No 1 Marriage Agency. I had set up interviews with 15 of them, I was on a mission not livng in Thaiand at the time, to find a Thai wife and I did. 12 years married and counting
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