Sj I can take humiliation as well as the next person, my life has been fill-ed with it. After all I was in the Army in Viet Nam and came home to insults like "Baby Killer" instead of parades like in previous generations, when in fact I NEVER killed any babies. Being a participant in the ONLY war the US ever lost was also humiliating. But I've had my fill of humiliation, especially by those who don't even know me.
But school kid name calling when I have never tried to offend ANYONE ( Believe me I CAN do it) pissed me off. Being called a "Drama Queen" because I made a parallel to the current state of the US and the Roman Empire and the demise of both due to war debt got me called names. A proper response would have been " Aren't you being a little overly melodramatic?" I wasn't trying to offend anyone with that parallel.
In the US a "Queen" is a homo who likes it in the rear. I am deeply offended by such references as I'm sure YOU WOULD BE. Technically the definition of a Drama Queen is someone who hysterically over dramatizes everything and makes it a big deal. But many Gay guys are not only queens but also Drama Queens. Queen is female and questions one's masculinity.
I am NOT gay, do not like ANYTHING in my rear or down my throat and I do not dramatize for effect in most of my life. The label was uncalled for and cowardly itself.
Then there is the label YOU gave me "Big Girl's Blouse". In America that is the same as calling someone a P..sy. (slang for female genitals). That means a cowardly, wimp, a weakling and a loser," deserving" of abuse. Again I was DEEPLY offended as you would be in my shoes. That insult was also uncalled for and not a response to any overt attempt to offend anyone, especially you. But you saw fit to act like a 10 year old and call names. WHY?
In my shoes you would want to prove to your detractors that they are wrong having never met you. That is my case. I think if you met me you would change your opinion. You have that opportunity if you want it. Of course you can also decline, that you will have to live with.
If one doesn't respond to challenges to his self -esteem one will lose it.
A simple apology will do.
Ball is in your court.
Twat, egotistical wanker, immature, P..sy, Drama Queen etc